Is Suicide The Only Way Out?

Hello Guys,

This morning, when I was doing my school work, I heard that an actor just committed suicide who had actually worked with Sushant Singh Rajput in MS Dhoni and also had worked with Akshay Kumar in Kesari.

Before committing suicide, he gave reason why he took this decision on a video. He goes on by saying,

"My nature and my wife's nature didn't match. My Mother-in-law and my wife didn't understood me. There were constant fights in our house on daily basis. I was in a deep trauma I couldn't describe. I have gone through a lot of ups and downs in my professional career as well as personal life. I know suicide is not the answer to my problems but committing suicide is better than living a life of no self respect."

After knowing this,

My soul was shattered to pieces and my rational mind was dead. I was deeply frustrated on how the hell he ended up taking his own life. I can understand his problems, I know it would have been harsh to live such a life, but, then, a thought came to my mind :-

Is suicide the only way out?

Thus, I present you this blog on my thoughts on suicide.

Committing suicide is a very common thing nowadays. Everyday we hear about suicides of small kids to college students and even adults. Directly opposing them would be unfair. Let us give justice to them by thinking from their viewpoint. Let us try to know what made their mind so brave to kill their own selves!

Most of the suicides in our society occur due to the following main reasons :-

1. Terrible Life 

2. Social Pressure

3. Family Problems

I may not be accurate to state these reasons but we can all agree that most of the suicides occur due to money related problems, friction in relationships or stress and depression due to social status.

Can we find a solution which is potent enough to tackle all these causes of suicide?

You become tired of the world just because your key to inner peace and inner love is in the hands of the external circumstances.

Reacting to their blows, you allow your mind to make ripples of disturbance and end up distorting your clarity.

You end up in a illusion where you think the world is in constant battle with you. You think its you VS universe! That is a delusion.

How humble the suicide committers are..

Instead of fighting back their problems using their wisdom and clarity,

They humbly, sweetly, without any hesitation,

End up their lives!

"My problems. I have no problem with you. The only problem is me. Thus, let me clear the problem." Says the suicider.

After committing suicide, after seeing his mother cry, after seeing his father in shame, after seeing his whole family in deep disgust, after seeing the whole society in utter disbelief of what has actually happened,

The suicide committer then thinks from hell,

"Oh, I don't think I have solved my problems I guess."

When a baby is born, he knows nothing. In fact, he doesn't even know what nothing is. The whole of the world is a strange terrain for him. His mother undoubtedly loves him but for him his mother too is a foreign creature!

How fortunate he is, that he doesn't have the nonsense brain, fortunate he is that he does not overthink and mess up in his own mind!

For an instance, if he had all these, according to the suicide committers logic, he must commit suicide right away.. The baby.

The baby is in an infinite confusion.

The baby is in an infinite maze.

He does not end up his life! Why?

He is an ever learner, patient enough to wait until the right moments come, when he learns to crawl, walk and then run.. Like a gradual, steady process.

The problem with suicide committers?

" Let the problem be solved right away. Let the problem bearer die right away. No need to wait, no need to think. Oh, How humble I am!

How politely I say my problems, ' Hey.. Do not go. I will not wait. Let me make your path clear. Do not go, as I only will go!"

What is you take-away?

Is suicide the only way out?

"No,

IN is the only way OUT"

Observing the problem within is the only way out. Being in the control of your inner self is the only way out.

Thanks,

Daksh Parekh.